Reaping the Rewards of Parenthood

If you're overwhelmed by the demands of caring for your newborn and wonder when life is going to feel 'normal' again, don't despair. After the first crazy few months of new parenthood the dust usually settles and things start to look up. You may get the odd night of decent sleep, your baby has some sort of a routine, you know what your baby wants when she 'calls', you feel confident about caring for her, and you get plenty of rewards for your efforts when your baby giggles and shows her toothless gums.

Even if your confidence about caring for your baby is a bit shaky at first, rest assured that you're not alone and very soon you'll be an expert on looking after your baby. Research shows that confidence about caring for the baby grows over time and most IVF mums and dads find parenthood enormously rewarding and fulfilling. Perhaps the long and winding IVF journey, during which you realise that you can't take parenthood for granted, makes you appreciate and value parenting even more than if you'd had a baby the quick and easy way.

Confident Kids

Confident Kids

Although nobody gets a parenting manual or bible in the delivery room, it is our duty as parents to try to make our kids as well rounded, happy and confident as possible. It is a lot easier to bring up great kids than it is to try and fix problems caused by bad parenting, when our kids have become adults. Our children are all individuals - they are not our property but people in their own right.

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